Mothers of Bride and Groom often have a kind of ‘uniform'. A neat shift dress that sits below the knee, a tailored jacket, and some kind of fussy fascinator or royal wedding-worthy hat.
And for lots of women, following that formula makes it less overwhelming to choose an outfit for your son or daughter's wedding. But for others, it's restrictive, it feels too formal, and often, it ends up being rather expensive too.
So today, we've come up with an edit of outfits that are altogether more modern, for mothers who want to ditch the rule book, while still looking elegant, timeless, and chic.
And while we're not ones to follow ‘fashion rules' there are a few things to keep in mind for a contemporary wedding day look:
- While you don't want to look like a bridesmaid (or worse, the bride), it is savvy to tie in your look with the feel and colour palette of the wedding. You don't want to wear bright pink for example, if the style of the day is more organic and muted.
- Likewise, as weddings become more personalised, your look should reflect your everyday style, whether that's bold, simple, or somewhere in-between – if you'd never wear a hat, or have your hair up, you don't need to do it just because you're at a wedding.
- Don't be concerned with having everything match perfectly. Traditionally, Mothers of the Bride or Groom have shoes, a bag and a hat, all in the same colour – contemporary style allows you to mix and match different colours and textures.
- And finally, don't worry about looking to only ‘age-appropriate' boutiques. The highstreet and online shopping is more accessible than ever before for all kinds of styles and sizes, so while the models might not look a day over 25 (let's hope that changes soon!) if you have an open mind and picture yourself in the outfits, you'll find something you love, and feel great in.
- And while I'm at it – there's no such thing as ‘age-appropriate'. Yes, you want to be chic and stylish, without taking too much attention away from the bride and groom, but that doesn't mean you need to cover up or wear something frumpy to do it. You do you, mothers!
To get you started, we've put together an edit of some of our favourite contemporary wedding outfits you can shop online today…
Elegant Mother of the Bride Dresses
Bonnie Gown – Pewter
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Mila Gown – Emerald
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Crane Cape Dress by Amsale
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Ballina Dress by Reformation
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Silk Wrap Midi Dress by Zimmermann
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Mac Duggal Emery Dress
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Jenny Gown – Emerald
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Mac Duggal Maya Dress
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Tadashi Shoji Odette Dress
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Jenny Yoo Ellis Velvet Open Back Dress
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Plus Size Mother of the Bride Dresses
Plus Size Chiffon Capelet Sheath Dress
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Plus Size Embroidered Illusion Gown
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BHLDN Leila Satin Charmeuse Dress
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Jenny Yoo Ryland Velvet Maxi Dress
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Sequin Lace Capelet Jersey Sheath Dress
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Plus Size Mesh Illusion Sleeves
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Gold Mother of The Bride Dresses
Long Floral Beaded Gown with Flutter Sleeves
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Drape Back Detail 3/4 Cape Sleeve Draped
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Beaded Sweetheart Neck Short Flutter Sleeve Mermaid Gown
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Kensie Stretch Sequin Keyhole Neckline
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Ruched Sequin Trumpet Gown
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Sequin Floral Sheath Gown
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Tea-Length Mother of the Bride Dresses
Plus Size Beaded Cocktail Dress In Biscotti
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Sleeveless Mikado Fit & Flare Midi Dress In Ivory
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Kay Unger Illusion Boat Neck Bodice 3/4 Sleeve
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Mac Duggal Short Floral Sleeve Bow Waist
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Wildflower Embroidered A-Line Dress
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Tea length lace and chiffon mock two-piece
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Petite Mother of the Bride Dresses
Alex Evenings Petite Size Jewel Neck Sleeveless
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Alex Evenings Petite Size Sweetheart Neck
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Alex Evenings Petite Size 3/4 Sleeve Sequined
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Pisarro Nights Petite Size Boat Neck 3/4 Sleeve
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Summer Mother of The Bride Dresses
Postcard Puff Sleeve Dress by Zimmermann
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Sweet Posy V Neck Ruffle Gown by Needle & Thread
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Selena Gown – Coral Venetia Petals
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Starfruit Maxi Dress by Farm Rio
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Long Floral Beaded Gown With Flutter Sleeves
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Short Sleeve Floral Embroidered Gown
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Short Sleeve Beaded Blouson Gown In Blush
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Floral Flutter Sleeve Knee Length A-Line
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High-Neck Floral A-Line Gown with Keyholes
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Brooke Gown – Blush Watercolor Floral
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Jessica Gown – Amaranths Spray
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Sexy Mother of the Bride Dresses
Twist Front Satin Gown With Cutout In True Blue
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Ines Gown – Steel Blue
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Off Shoulder Dress With Floral Embellishment
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Winslow Dress by Reformation
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