Hello there, lovely readers! Today, we're diving into a special treat, handpicked from knowledgeable industry experts – the little hints of luxury that can transition a wonderful wedding day into an extraordinary one.
We're not talking about big extravagances, but rather those petite, considerate touches that make your day distinctively ‘you' and leave your guests feeling cherished. From the elegance of personalized hangers to the joy of a gourmet coffee bar, our experts have gathered some charming ideas that add just the right amount of opulence without overdoing it.
So, serve yourself a cup of your favorite brew, find a cozy spot, and let's unearth these delightful details together. Trust us, these expert-approved ideas can dust a sprinkle of magic over your grand event!
Choose special getting ready attire
“It’s worth it to splurge on a quality, luxury bridal robe for the wedding morning! Not only will it make for beautiful photos of one of the most important mornings of your life, but it'll be a special item you'll wear again for little moments of luxury throughout your life. Trust us, this is one upgrade you won’t regret!” – Kristy Breed & Helen Semovski, Director & Designer, Le Rose Stories
Add personalized menus
“Guest experience should be paramount when envisioning the perfect wedding day. Consider personalizing aspects of your day for each guest. Create menus with each guest's name and specific menu choices to be placed at their assigned seat. Not only is this a high impact element for guests but it creates a finished look for your tables and makes tracking menu choices easier for catering.” – Mandy Connor, Owner, Hummingbird Events & Design
Personalized Hangers
“Hey, why not add a sweet, personal touch with customized hangers? Picture this: your wedding date and your names beautifully scripted on them. Not only do they make your wedding dress and suit look even more special, but think of the gorgeous photo ops they'll create!” – Elizabeth M Kane, Founder, Bridal Musings
Serve up a welcome beverage
“Champagne is always the answer. Have glasses of champagne (and non-alcoholic options!) passed out to guests as they arrive for the ceremony. It sets a luxurious tone for the day and why doesn't love a pre-ceremony beverage?” – Mandy Connor, Owner, Hummingbird Events & Design
Handwritten Calligraphy Notes
“Last but not least, imagine your guests finding personalized notes at their seats. Handwritten, maybe with a little memory or a thank-you in beautiful calligraphy. It’s a heartfelt, simple way to make everyone feel truly part of your special day.” – Elizabeth M Kane, Founder, Bridal Musings
Offer guests a late night snack
“Adding a late-night snack to your reception timeline is well worth the extra dough. Guests have been dancing and drinking for 3-4 hours at this point, so they will thank you for this one in the morning!” – Rachel, Rachel Red Photography
Hire a professional assistant!
“Hiring a planning team that provides a bridal assistant or has access to suggest a reputable bridal assistant vendor is so important to the success of a smooth and memorable wedding day! Having a professional bridal assistant present to take care of all the little things while getting ready will make the day so much more relaxing and allow you, your family and your friends to be fully present, allowing you to soak it all in, and truly enjoy the day. The benefit of investing in this service is having a designated, experienced assistant there to steam or press garments, assist with all attire preparation for everyone in the bridal party, accompany bridal party while taking photos, have emergency sewing kits and other needed supplies on hand, be a direct line of contact to your planning team to communicate any changes or immediate needs and so much more! We think this is a little something special that can lead to the most unforgettable day. There is nothing better than looking and feeling your best and feeling completely taken care of on such a special day!” – The A Charleston Bride Team
Silk Pocket Squares or Scarves
“For a touch of class, how about silk pocket squares for the gents and elegant scarves for the ladies? It's a stylish way to add a bit of luxury to their outfits, and they get to keep them as a chic memento.” – Elizabeth M Kane, Founder, Bridal Musings
Wear a wedding fragrance
“Do you want to remember exactly how you felt when you saw each other on your wedding day? A scent can immediately trigger a detailed memory, so picking a brand-new fragrance for you and your partner to wear is a worthy splurge.” – Rachel, Rachel Red Photography
Embroidered Linens
“Dinner tables can be more than just tables. With some high-quality linens featuring delicate embroidery, you’re not just setting a table; you’re creating an experience. It’s all about adding sophistication without going over the top.” – Elizabeth M Kane, Founder, Bridal Musings
Upgrade your lighting
“Say it louder for the people in the back – LIGHTING!!! Anytime a client asks me what element packs the biggest punch for setting the mood for their big day, my answer is lighting. There is a wide array of lighting you can consider to enhance all aspects of your wedding day – from overhead bistro or twinkle lights, colorful and fun up-lights, dramatic chandeliers or candlelight, pinspots, mirror balls, or full blown production tent or stage washes. Any of these options can really create an environment and evoke a specific feeling with just the use of light and color. Whether you are trying to enhance something indoors, outdoors, or even tented – lighting is effective in any location!” – Alexandra Denniston, Owner and Lead Planner, Eventlightenment Planning
Gourmet Coffee and Tea Bar
“Who doesn't love a good cup of coffee or tea? Bring in a barista and treat your guests to some top-notch brews. It's perfect for a morning wedding or as a pick-me-up after dancing. Plus, it's a cozy and classy touch that coffee and tea lovers will adore.” – Elizabeth M Kane, Founder, Bridal Musings
Gift everyone favors
“I'm forever encouraging my couples to include either a consumable favor at each place setting, and a place card (made of or lettered on something other than just card stock) that guests can take home at the end of the night. The food/consumable appeals to the folks that are less sentimental, and the place card wholly includes those that are SO thrilled to have been included in your day.” – Ashley Lachney, Owner, Alston Mayger Events
High-Quality Guest Toiletries
“Let’s make those restroom visits unexpectedly pleasant. Stock up on some fancy hand creams, quality hairspray, and maybe some mints. It's those little luxe details in the restrooms that can make your guests feel extra pampered.” – Elizabeth M Kane, Founder, Bridal Musings
Include custom details
“Impress your guests and further personalize your wedding day with custom details. A custom logo can be used in multiple ways, for example, embossed on cocktail napkins, fun decals, and more. Or splurge on customizing certain décor, like linens, that will elevate other details like the table scape and centerpieces. Custom colors or textures will feel lush and luxe and make your guests feel as though you really pored over the details.” – Jessica Rodriquez Hanselman, Crossed Keys Estate
Have an on-site beauty artist
“Hire your lead beauty artist for a handful of additional touch up hours. Your artist can provide hair and makeup touch ups during photos and help you freshen up before and after the ceremony. They will reapply your lipstick, powder or blot your shiny skin if you've been perspiring, fix your mascara or lashes you may have cried off, and make sure your hairs aren't wildly flying around in photos. If the timeline permits, they can restyle your hair and makeup to coordinate with a second look. This is a little luxury that my planning couples rave about!” – Jessica Carrillo, Art & Soul Events
Splurge on the champagne
“Bottles will likely be popping on your wedding day morning, so splurge on upgraded bubbled! Skip the grocery store prosecco and upgrade your sips to truly indulge and feel spoiled.” – Nora Sheils, Founder, Bridal Bliss + Rock Paper Coin
Treat yourself to a dress change
“A little luxury that makes an impact on your wedding day will be a second dress. It may seem like a small detail, but it will be a weight off of your shoulders (literally) so you can dance the night away comfortably. It's a long day in your wedding gown, so this gives you a chance to take a breath, take in the moments, and feel most comfortable as well.” – Casey Stamouli, Owner and Lead Planner, Casey & Co. Events
Velvet Ring Boxes
“Velvet ring boxes? Yes, please! These aren’t just boxes; they’re little treasures themselves. They add a luxurious feel to your ring exchange and become a beautiful keepsake you'll cherish.” – Elizabeth M Kane, Founder, Bridal Musings
Wear comfortable shoes
“We totally think you should splurge on the shoes you have always wanted to wear on your wedding day (hello Louboutin!), but also splurge on really comfortable shoes to wear once your feet are tired! It can be a fancy pair of sneakers, flip flops or even slippers! Your feet will thank you once you hit the dance floor!” – Jamie, Cape Cod Celebrations
Have a photobooth
“One luxury that you'll never regret is a photo booth for your wedding day. After the photographer leaves and everyone is high on the celebration, a photo booth will be the perfect place to capture those funny moments that you'll always want to remember.” – Natalya Kolosok, New York City Bride
Don’t skimp on the flowers
“One luxury that can breathe life into any wedding and create unforgettable moments is flowers. Whether it's adding an arrangement to your cake table or a floral arch to your ceremony, there are tons of great ways that flowers can provide a sense of beauty to any moment in your wedding.” – Natalya Kolosok, New York City Bride
The biggest luxury of all: time!
“Time is one of the single most precious and scarce resources you will have on your day. It is priceless in that you literally can't buy more of it. Indulge in giving yourself the time to be present and fully take certain moments in. Stay with your mom or dad just those 5-10 seconds longer at the end of a parent dance. Take 10 minutes to find a quiet place to have a drink with your best man. Find a brother or sister and take a moment to enjoy dessert alone together like a couple of kids. There will be many big moments. Give yourself the precious luxury of taking in and enjoying the small ones.” – Robert Perkins, Founder, On The Beat Music Agency
And that wraps up our list of little luxuries! A collection of little luxuries that promise to add a sprinkle of special to your big day. Remember, it’s not about going over the top; it’s about finding those small, meaningful ways to elevate your celebration and make it truly memorable. Whether it’s through a bespoke scent at your perfume bar or a heartfelt note in gorgeous calligraphy, each of these ideas is all about adding a personal touch that speaks volumes. As you plan your wedding, think about which of these ideas resonate with you and how they can reflect your unique style and story. Happy planning, and here’s to a wedding day filled with lovely, luxurious moments that you and your guests will cherish!
